family safety guide
Too Many Arrival Pings Train Everyone to Ignore the Real One
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Quick take
Places alerts are useful when they are rare. Hey Polo currently does arrival / geofence style notifications for families. Use two or three places, not twenty. GUIDEORA does not parent by push notification.
Notifications have a budget
Your brain budgets attention. Twenty geofences bankrupt it. Then the one that mattered was swipe-away number fourteen.
This is the same disease as driving-speed alerts on every block. Another article on this site says those are not parenting. This one says fences are not a personality.
From the record
If you would not wake for it at 1 a.m., it should not ping at 4 p.m. either.
GUIDEORA rule for geofences
A short list
Home. School. Maybe a practice field. Not the mall, the gym, and four coffee shops. Recipients should be people who must act, not the group chat.

Few fences
The point
Grocery
Usually noise
School
Maybe
Silence
Failure
- A fence is not consent to live-track all day.
- Kids who feel spied will leave the phone at a friend's.
- Battery savers kill radios and create false 'left' pings.
- 911 is still 911. An app ping is not.
Hey Polo as a quiet radio
Hey Polo currently markets location sharing and place alerts. The product is only as good as the quiet you configure. Confirm live how many places you can set and who receives them.
If the plan nags you to add more places, that is engagement. You can refuse.
Pros
- +A few fences still earn a school-lane job
- +Quiet alerts get read
- +Hey Polo currently treats places as a feature you can limit
Cons
- −Default culture is more pings
- −False exits from GPS bounce
- −Silenced apps help no one
Delete until it would wake you
Keep two fences. Hey Polo is the alert example. GUIDEORA does not ping your grocery store.
Editor take
Rarity is the feature
Too many geofences train ignore. Hey Polo is the family-alert example. Configure fewer. Confirm live.
